How did I Kismet Brandy? Well it all started with a last min cancellation. Allot of prep goes into the Bonnie's Joy experience and sometimes life happens, clients cancel; no sense in wasting a royal experience. So I went on facebook and posted for last min fill in for Bonnie's Joy pin up and boudoir. The universe brought me Brandy. I was nervous we had one day to prepare I didn't get the normal prep time as with my other clients. Bonnie's Joy custom makes all experiences. How can I make an experience when I never talked or interacted with my rebelQueen? Trust in my strengths and intuition. That morning rebelQueen Brandy signed paperwork and text me. I informed Brandy our theme was St. Paddy Day. Thousands of thoughts go through my mind. What if she hates green? What if she disappointed about the theme? I had nothing to worry about because Brandy and I are kismet.  

Brandy was so excited St. Paddy is her soulmates favorite holiday and she wants pictures as a gift. Say what!? Just then I felt the universe was in perfect alinement. What were the chances? I was in awe. I shared my excitement and gratitude with my new rebelQueen I hurried to have everything perfect for her arrival. When Brady arrived I felt we were like old friends, laughing sharing freely with no fear of judgements.  I loved doing Brandy hair and makeup. Brandy is already beautiful adding to her naturally beauty was easy, we had fun putting outfits together picking out accessories. I really value our time together. 
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The theme fit her perfectly I believe now it was always meant for her. Once we got to the photoshoot part Brandy and I were having a great time. 3 outfits, 3 set, hair, make up, wardrobe went perfectly. Brandy was easy to coach and pose. I could feel Brandy was in her element and it showed in picture after pictures. Brandy's inner light got brighter and brighter.  Yes! Shine rebelQueen Shine! I'm so thankful to share in this amazing journey with Brandy to show her you are valued , you are worthy, you are beautiful "flaws" and all.  You are perfectly imperfect!

Check out what Brandy had to say on google about her Bonnie's Joy experience. 
Brandy Kirby
3 weeks ago
*****At first I was so nervous but Alyssa made me feel like we were old time friends. We laughed so much more then I expected! The experience was so amazing I walked out feeling so sexy and confident. I can’t express how incredible this experience is. You will have the time of your life and the pictures you get will blow your mate’s mind! I can’t wait for my man to see his gift.

Brandy gratitude and express of love she has giving me is priceless. After I made my why video click here to view https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZB9dehPmdWo and posted to our group rebelQueens of Utah just 2 days ago. I was nervous. I feel your why is so important for any journey in life specially those in the service industry.  I felt vulnerable unsure if I was conveying my message clearly.  Well after what Brandy said about my video. I was filled with gratitude and a peace of knowing I'm on the right path. "Brandy Miera I am so happy that this is your calling, and that I found you in my time of need. It may sound silly but the shoot that I had lifted my spirits and gave me motivation to focus more on me. Crazy how a picture can build your confidence more then words." I mean like aw heart box moment, This is why I do what I do. To give something deeper. I am filled with pride that through my royal experience Brandy is loving herself more, building that confidence and intimacy. Yes! My true mission the real gift behind Bonnie's Joy is this. I can't wait to pamper rebelQueen Brandy again with the Bonnie's Joy pinup and boudoir experience!

​I had an amazing time pampering rebelQueen Sharon on Feb. 23rd. Sharon is our pin-up of the month or March. To watch the video reaction after Sharon royal experience go to youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Za4k3A4wQ8Y&t=1s

It's international women's day!!! To celebrate I am offering an amazing deal! Bonnie's Joy experience
Here's the Details: 
😍 5 spots available (claim it quick its going to go fast)
😍Offer ends Sunday at midnight
✨ Save $201 off your session fee and get your Empowering Boudoir Experience for ONLY $99 - regularly $300! 🙀
✨ Enjoy a $100 product credit toward your collection purchase
✨ Get a an extra outfit change 👙
✨ Hair and makeup is always included!
🛑Grab your spot here: https://www.bonniesjoypinupparties.com/scheduling.html
Not sure you're ready yet? Read what these #rebelQueens had to say about their experience : :
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"Loved my expeirence! I felt confident and beautiful and the pictures were amazing! She had them ready fast for my anniversary present and my husband loved them. Cant wait to go back again!"
-Mrs.R
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"This was a ton of fun! I enjoyed getting all dressed up. Alyssa did amazing hair and make-up, and doing the pin-up poses was so much fun!!
" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Za4k3A4wQ8Y
-Mrs. S
💣 Truth Bomb!💥
Look, we all have excuses but I truly believe that a boudoir experience can CHANGE YOUR LIFE! 🤯 You DON'T need...
🛑 to lose X pounds
🛑 to get into better shape
🛑 to have a significant other to gift the photos to.
You DO need...
💚 to see yourself through someone else's eyes
💚 to pamper yourself
💚 to put yourself first once in a while 
💚 to LOVE yourself
⌚If you wait until you hit a certain point, you'll likely be waiting forever!
🙅🏼‍♀️ So STOP making excuses as to why you can't do this and START giving yourself reasons TO do this! Give yourself permission to FEEL GOOD!
This isn't just a quick experience that fades away, like a manicure! 💅 This is an experience that helps you to see your true beauty! And your photos will be a lasting keepsake to remind you when you start to forget! 💭
So, what are you waiting for?? Book here: https://www.bonniesjoypinupparties.com/scheduling.html

I had an amazing time pampering rebelQueen Rachel on Feb. 19th. 

TO watch the video reaction after Rachel royal experience go to youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqZwQHnu0s8

There are so many reason to experience a boudoir photoshoot. Before I do let's be clear no experience is the same!  There’s no template for boudoir. Each experience is unique to you. Miss. Joy doesn't follow a formula and the outcome is very much based on the personalities involved.

This means that if you want your photo shoot to be cosy and relaxed, that’s what Miss. Joy will make it. If you want it to be sexy and revealing, you’ve got it. Miss. Joy poses and encourages you along the way. The end result will be something personal and specific to you. Boudoir give you and/or your significant other something to be proud of and something that serves as a reminder of what’s important to your relationship.
So, why should you do a boudoir photoshoot? If you aren’t already convinced, here are some of the reasons Miss. Joy thinks you should consider having a boudoir photo shoot…

It Builds Intimacy
Boudoir builds intimacy with yourself and/or partner. You’ve already chosen to spend your life with your partner and you’ve already shown each other all sorts of parts of yourselves – physically and emotionally. Sharing an experience like this can take all of that one step further, adding to those building blocks of intimacy which make up your relationship.
Through the Bonnie's Joy experience and the physical prompt of your beautiful images, you and/or partner will be reminded of the affection you have for yourself and the confidence it brings.  Your partner will be reminded of the beautiful sensual creature you are the special bond you share. Shifting your partner's or your focus on the shining light of your natural perfection. Specifically capturing that authenticity in print really highlights one's relationship.
You may find that afterwards, you have a new appreciation for each other, an added layer to your relationship. Learning new things with and about your partner is a beautiful bonding experience. 

It’s a Custom Experience

Bonnie's Joy can set the scene to reflect exactly what romance is for you. If rose petals and luxurious fabrics do it for you, you’ve got it. If you prefer simplicity, Bonnie's Joy can do that too.  Just let Miss, Joy know she will make it happen. 
At Bonnie's Joy studio, we have a range of props for you to try out and get comfy with. Including a  bed, chaise longue and a assortment of benches and chairs! You’re welcome to bring smaller props with you as well. These might include sumptuous throws, fabrics, flowers, etc. Anything you’re unsure of, please just ask. Bonnie's Joy really want you to feel comfortable and relaxed so that Miss. Joy can help you get the absolute most out of your experience.
Ultimately, the goal is to create an atmosphere where you can be yourself. Miss. Joy will be there to pamper and coach you every step of the way to capture the moment and you will be the only focus. 

You’ll will feel VERY Sexy
Even if you don’t feel sexy at the beginning of the shoot, you will by the time Miss. Joy is done. Bonnie's Joy experience comes with 3 outfit changes. This could range from super sexy underwear to your significant other favourite t-shirt – whatever does it for you.
There aren’t really any rules here. If you are more comfortable with nothing or little on then Miss. Joy can make that work. If your happy to reveal all, that can make a great shot too! Miss. Joy knows how to work up to gradually so that you feel comfortable she a real natural.
Bonnie's Joy is a great excuse for you to pamper yourselves before the shoot! If your partner knows about your upcoming experience this is a great time to go shopping together, pick out outfits, talk about themes (this also is a bonding experience as well).  Treat yourselves to manicures, pedicures, facials, etc. to make sure you’re ready and at your best ahead of the session. This isn’t mandatory – if you’d rather keep your look natural, that’s perfectly fine with us

Personal Connection

Let's a honest we all take people for granted including ourselves and sometimes miss the little things about people which make our lives better, easier and worthwhile. During your Bonnie's Joy experienced Miss. Joy values your authenticity and your desire to build intimacy with yourself or your significant other.  A boudoir experience can serve as a reminder to be kinder to yourself, embrace your beauty and value your sensuality. Building your self confidence increasing those feelings and thoughts with your partner as well.
Sometimes this can be a little surprising. Seeing yourselves from a slightly different perspective can really solidify your existing bond as a couple and with yourself. For example; catching that admiring glance from your partner you maybe don’t notice before your Bonnie's Joy experience. 

After your Bonnie's Joy experience you’ll feel more connected to your partner but more importantly with yourself. And maybe even just a little bit more in love don't we all want that more self love? 

It’s Fun!
This is a chance for you to really celebrate who you, are as you are and have fun doing it. You can relax as Miss. Joy professional applies makeup and hair with 25 years experience you know your in good hands. Miss. Joy specializes in vintage styles. Want something more urban and up to date? No problem just let Miss. Joy know. Listening to your choice of music and Miss. Joy humorous nature your bound to have a blast.  
Bonnie's Joy comfortable and private studio, you can try new things or rely on what you know you’re already comfortable with. Miss. Joy will help you along the way with suggestions and direction. Miss. Joy really works for you to enjoy the session feeling pampered and relaxed for those natural shots that look “real” than if you’re nervous or tense.

Being Nervous Isn’t a Problem

Sometimes we find that were really nervous for our photoshoot. Miss. Joy understand being the eldest of 5 sisters and a mom herself she is naturally patent and people quickly are at ease with her.  Bonnie's Joy reassure you; Miss. Joy seen it all and prides herself on building a relaxed and trusting environment. There’s no judgement here and Bonnie's Joy want you to feel comfortable so that she can capture your honest and true self.  Miss. Joy isn't  shooting for brochures polished, contrived images. Bonnie's Joy want something unique and personal to you. Something that doesn’t exist anywhere else, with anyone else.

Miss Joy will provide VIP service from start to finish.  Consultation session before the shoot to discuss ideas, ans questionnaire of what you like and of course what you dont like.  If there are any angles or “problem areas” that you don’t want to be shot, let Miss. Joy know.  Miss. Joy may challenge you on these of course if she think it will make for a beautiful shot, but ultimately, it’s your call. Mis. Joy is very respectful of your body and ask permission to touch. Miss. Joy is polite, professional, intelligent and well educated so you have a most amazing experience. 

It doesn’t matter if you’ve been in your relationship for 2 or 20 years or if your single a boudoir experience can have lasting confidence boost and feelings of intimacy. It's an amazing experience! If your in a relationship boudoir can bring that "new " feeling to each other, remind yourselves and your partner of all of the little reasons why you’re together and reaffirm all of those big reasons too. Boudoir is a once in a lifetime gift to yourself and/ or significant other.  So what are you waiting for? Book your appointment today.

​The term "pinup" was coined during World War II when American soldiers would pin pictures, usually drawings and sometimes photos, of beautiful women to their bunks or in their aircraft. 

Tip 1: First thing first decide what you want all pin up photoshoot, all boudoir photoshoot or half and half my favorite (Make sure you let Miss. Joy know what photoshoot style you're looking for she costume makes her set and experiences) If you have time go online and research the style you like most and then cross research that style on shopping site such as amazon to get 3 outfits assuming you don't own any pin up style clothing or lingerie. Which most people have some sort of pin up; great thing about pin up style it's super simple such as blue jeans and a plaid shirt with bandana or a simple dress. Or you can go to your local boutique for example in Salt Lake City, Retro Betty 2821 S 2300 E, Salt Lake City, UT 84109 Local thrift shops are another place to find pin up clothing just remember to have enough time to wash them.  Now if you own lingerie bring your favorites or your partner's favorite (your partner favorite dress shirt is always a cute idea as well)

If you don't any lingerie. I would buy local only, you need to try it on. Even if you have pin up clothing and/or lingerie you want to try them on as well 1 week if possible before your shoot. Do they still fit comfortably? Make sure the clothing is still in good condition. If not it's best to go buy something. Focus on your assets! I always wash my newly purchased under garments. Make sure you have everything you need for the shoot 2 days before your appointment date. Pack your suitcase or bag the day before your shoot. In your suitcase bring 3 outfits 1. dress or pin up /vintage outfit, 2. second pin up outfit or lingerie, 3. last pin up / retro outfit or lingerie (keep in mind you will need to change in and out quickly so we have more photo taking time.) Miss. Joy will help as well. 4. one back up outfit or dress, lingerie, undies, swimwear, bras ect ect. Bonnie's Joy does provide accessories even though bring your favorite necklace, robes or other jewelry (it makes your photos more personal). If you don't own any accessories dont worry Miss. Joy will provide. Women look great in heels don't forget yours 3 outfits 3 pairs of heels. Doing the bare foot thing? No problem point your toes. 

If you concentrate on one particular fabric or colourway, black satin for instance, you can mix and match, and this can often mean a more unique ‘outfit’ than if you bought everything from one place. Take at least one packet of fresh, unopened stockings, especially if they are black ones. Nude ones are more resilient, or rather snags don’t show up, whereas even worn once, black ones are likely to have snags that don’t look so good on camera. Bulldog clips are a good thing to take to shoots, especially if you borrow clothing. Even clothing that’s yours can look even better when clipped in a bit – for a shoot it can be much tighter on the waist than you need for everyday wear!

Beauty sleep! Work to eat well, get enough sleep, and generally look after yourself. Girl I understand the struggle as well. I write it in my goals often. Eat healthier options. mmmm but those cheese sticks....anyways. But if you’re feeling happy and healthy, it makes for a much better shoot than if you’re tired and run down. Whatever you do, definitely don’t go experimenting with new cosmetics or beauty products just before a shoot, or you run the risk of having a breakout. Also exfoliate your lips the night before your appointment.  Finally, this may seem obvious, but do not go out drinking the night before. Try to have an early night, so you wake up all bright eyed, bushy tailed, and above all, enthusiastic about your shoot. It should be fun! Again, if you feel good, you will look good, and produce much better photographs. 

For a great experience research your poses! Are you going for cheesecake pinup or vintage glamour? Miss. Joy couches and poses but the more you know the more comfortable your going to be. Some of the poses found in pin-up illustrations aren’t actually possible when you’re a real person! But they are fantastic for inspiration. If it bend it women look best in pictures where their arms, legs are bent. Let Miss. Joy know what poses your interested in she can help. Practice your pouts and facial expressions in the mirror for more pin up style . A,E,I,O,U are some shapes to form with your month. When doing the kissy face look Literally blow air. You might feel a trifle silly, but practice does make perfect! If boudoir only / some pin up MIss. Joy will ask you to look down, look out the window or wall, look at her, half smile, full smile. 

Slightly dirty hair is so much better to curl and style for pin up style. If you’re prone to greasiness, wash it the morning of the day before, try to avoid washing it the night before as it’ll be all smooth and slippery, and thus harder to style. Definitely don’t dye it so close to your shoot for the same reasons. Have a long bath in the evening, exfoliate your body all over, shave everything you want shaved (or do this in the morning if you’re shoot isn’t until the afternoon) and moisturise. Pluck your eyebrows! Bleach bits if you need to! This preparation will make experience the best it can be.

Bonnie's Joy uses natural lighting. Make sure you have Miss. Joy contact info in your phone. Charge said phone! Call or email night before. Eat before your appointment. Arrive on time. If possible during the editing time have your significant other join you at the studio. They love seeing the photos and sharing in your experience.  

Loving this sweet little pin up 

Your Bonnie's Joy experience includes hair and makeup in the traditional vintage style. Sabrina is the girl next door who rarely wears makeup , heels or a dress. I love the result of her vintage style. 

"Bonnie's Joy experience gave me confidence and more appreciation of my feminine side.  Thank you, Miss Joy" - Sabrina